Parents nurture us from childhood and bring us up. They raised us with hundreds of efforts and love and raised us as an ideal, polite, elegant child. In this world you will see that everyone is selfish in one way or another but parents are the only ones who love their children without any selfishness without doubt and in return parents want to see the smile on their child's face. There really is no comparison between parents. They give their whole life for us so that we can be happy. When I was very young, I used to see my mother, if someone gave her something to eat, she would not eat it and leave it for me. How mother loved me. Many times I didn't want to eat rice or food, but my mother used to tell me, father, eat this little rice or else I will dry up. How lovingly he used to feed me. I miss these childhood memories. Then father rode on his shoulders and turned around. Dad sacrificed a lot of his life for me. I used to see my father wearing a shirt, a pair of shoes and how old they were. I haven't seen my father to buy new clothes in 1 year. My father loved me very much and he used to buy me whatever I wanted. He never ignored my request, but he saw that my father used to buy me without buying anything. Sometimes I could see that my father had no money in his pocket, but he did not do anything I wanted. Although, I didn't understand much about Dad when I was young but learned to understand everything when I grew up. I have never felt pain for this man called Baba. Today I have grown so much for my parents. Every part of my body was built by my parents with hundreds of dollars and money. We will never be able to repay the debt of parents' pain and love.
No matter how much trouble we have in this world, parents should never be neglected. Even if the whole world is against you, only two people will never go against you, and they are your parents.
I have seen many sons and daughters of rich people who consider them a burden when their parents get old. He misbehaves with his parents. After marriage, children increase the distance from their parents. Parents find them boring but they don't think that these parents have made him so big from childhood. After getting a wife, son, daughter for a few days, he forgets them or leaves them in old age in old age. Well tell me if today you leave your parents in old age home, how would you feel if tomorrow your son and daughter do the same thing with you.
Remember that whatever you do in the world! The fruits of your actions will one day be returned to you by nature.
Children's paradise under the feet of parents. So never misbehave with parents. Always talk to parents gently and nicely. Don't talk in jitters or slurs. Talk to them with respect as they age. Bring a gift for the parents that both parents will be happy to see. Parents have done so much for you today by holding back their happiness and sorrow all their lives, today you should also do something for them. Remember that it is not their right or duty to serve your parents in old age, it is your responsibility. It is the duty of every child of this world to serve their parents with respect in their old age. A child who can devote himself to the service of his parents is the most fortunate. I don't think there is anyone else in this world as happy as him.
***Things that should never be done with parents........
1) Neglecting parents.
2) Talking in loud voice. No such thing can be said For which parents suffer.
3) Never disobey parents.
4) Don't forget them after getting a wife.
5) Never order or command parents instead they will order or command you.
6) Don't do things that make parents look younger. In this, they suffer.
7) Do not shout or talk loudly to parents.
8) Never want to separate from parents after marriage. In this, the parents suffer and they will leave the world suffering till the end of their lives.
***Whatever you can do to make your parents happy...........
1) Always love your parents. You show them that you love them enough to grow up. This gives them peace of mind and makes them feel lucky to have a child like you.
2) Always respect parents.
3) On their special day, gift something special.
4) Everyone will eat together while eating.
5) Ask your wife to treat your parents like her parents. If he doesn't see your parents well, in that case, you can convey through gestures that he thinks of your parents as his own parents, and if he doesn't think like that, you also take a little distance from his parents. Treat your wife's parents as you treat your own parents. In this, your wife will realize her mistake and correct herself. If you can do this even for a limited time, you will see that your wife will adopt your parents as her own.
(If you think you should use this trick, do it, or don't.)
6) Father and you go to the market together like before. Play together in the afternoon and your father will be happy.
7) Parents send both of them to visit special places. Which could not be done so far. You take if necessary or the whole family goes together.
8) Always eat with parents. Never eat out alone because it hurts parents.
9) Parents also need money in old age so give them some money.
10) Keep the whole family together. It will strengthen family bonds and increase love. Your parents will never experience hardship or loneliness in their old age.
If you can do the above tasks. I say you will become the best child of your parents. You will become a good husband to your wife. You will get the blessings of your parents, you will see that everything in this world will be easy for you. Allah Ta'ala himself will remove all your troubles due to these actions. Remember when you serve your parents no one is more pleased than my Creator Allah Ta'ala. Ya Allah you are great. Truly those who have parents in this world are never poor.
Please forgive me if there are any mistakes in my writing.
The reason for writing this article is that everyone has love for their parents and that it benefits you. Please leave a comment as a result of my writing and hard work and my writing will be fully worthwhile only when you obey your parents.
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