Is it right or wrong to criticize others?

We often criticize many people and we often don't understand how reasonable or unreasonable that criticism is.

Criticizing others is a waste of time. It is not right to criticize someone because that person or person may misunderstand you. Everyone's thoughts and brains are not the same. You may have laughed and made a negative comment about someone but that person took that comment badly, then what happens is that you will be the victim of the reverse attack.

If you read this you will be clear..

Abir and Raihan are two close relatives of each other. Abir deals in fish and Raihan sells Gharur's milk. Both of them come into this business together and at the end of the day they calculate each other's sales. Abir and Raihan's business was going well but one day suddenly Raihan said to Abir brother you should run your business properly, then Raihan took it naturally for the first time. But the reason for telling this to Raihan is that Raihan used to mix water in her milk which Abir knew, so he did not say it directly face to face, if he had said it face to face then maybe Raihan would have restrained himself. What Abir did was start criticizing Raihan to the people to whom he sold fish, thinking that if Raihan found out later, he would correct himself and not mix water with milk, so Abir naturally criticized many people about Raihan's milk. He came to know about this and started saying to himself that both of them do business together all day long. And he is the one who criticizes my business and me. Thinking this, Raihan started telling his customers that Abir's fish is not good and that he is selling rotten water fish. At some point this conflict caused a rift in their relationship and they separated from each other. And their business is a lot of loss.

What did you understand here..?

Abi criticizes Raihan thinking it will be good and he will correct himself and Raihan without criticizing directly says bad about his fish out of anger.

And at some point they are all gone, so remember that criticism will never do you any good, it will only increase the number of your enemies and cause you harm.

It is not right to criticize others. You may have criticized him thinking it will be better, so that he changes himself but it doesn't happen but it goes for worse, so never criticize someone. Never try to convince others that you are right and they are wrong, this also creates enemies. No matter how close a person is to you, don't try to teach him exactly wrong, he will already understand by stumbling. You just do your job.

Now let's look at the positive side of criticism...

Not everyone can own this aspect, only the wise can own it. Criticism is sometimes not a curse for our life but a blessing.

  Suppose someone next to you criticizes you about an act, something you didn't know about, then if you don't stop him and keep quiet, you can find your fault from there, then it's not bad, what do you say?

So sometimes criticism is a blessing for us. A single criticism can change our life. Helping us find faults we never knew existed.

Now if someone criticizes me, what can I do?

First of all don't interrupt him, keep quiet and try to understand what he wants to say. Let's say you interrupt him, which makes things even more difficult. So you didn't stop him, you didn't say anything, he didn't criticize, but because you were silent, you knew your fault and you didn't stop him.

He helped you to find fault and you did not have any enemies or quarrels.

Now you ask yourself..?

Should criticize or should not!... Or is it better to remain silent.